this is what i want in a beach... secluded, private and you are alone by yourself...to think, to measure, to evaluate and to reflect who you are as a person. to think of God, your family and your friends. to plan the future, to make use intelligently of your God given life, the remaining years of it however so many. to aid a life in short...pic is patar beach, in bolinao, pangasinan, not mine... but TY to you who owns it for sharing...far from the pics i have taken of patar beach. maybe it was taken way back when it was really a quiet beach or maybe it is on the other end of this lovely beach...i dunno, but what i know is this pic makes me very happy :>
so few things these days make me happy. if you lose a husband, you lose a part of your life...people say you still have your children. yes, true and i am very thankful for them to God :)...we can go on with our lives but his memories will always be with us until the end of our times on earth...he was far from a perfect husband but he was what we had and btw his dad introduced me to him, his name was Jose, a nurse who graduated at U.P. and was the highest official of the University of Pangasinan, the director of this university then during his times. i was new here in the U.S. not owning a car yet so i took the bus one day going downtown and while waiting for the bus there was this old filipino man walking towards me. and he said "naning i have a boy for you" and it was tito, my husband he was talking about...and i took that as a sign from God...i was 31 yrs. old then. i came here in the U.S. when i was 26 years old. so it did helped when your dad will find you a wife, laughs. i went to his funeral and there i saw my future husband. really i never meant to marry yet, then. i thought that i still have a few more years to enjoy life as a single person but it wasn't meant to be...we named JC from his paternal grandfather, Jose Carlo, in honor of my father in law...so it was not love who found me a husband. it was mr. jose olegario, sr...or saint joseph...
