if you were in my shoes what would you do. would you be able to lick the wound and hope it will heal for you. would you be able to open the windows and let the nasty air pass through. would you eat that piece of cake which you knew it's not good for you. what would you do? ...the thing is these are all IFs, like the thought of planning our tomorrows which we don't even own. just as many are not happy with Venus' answer to that tricky question in that pageant, it is done. just think that it was her show and that she did her best and gave her best, let's be happy with that. it wasn't meant to be so that was it. IF is really a tricky word, for IF is not for us it is for her to answer that question...i know some people are just too critical of her but again it is her question to answer and not our's. too bad that you thought that she could have done better or worst that they could have done better which brings us again to the word IF...like IF they were her, but sadly they don't have that crown to represent the Phil. in this event for she had...yes, IF...i don't think it is really right to entertain this IF word because it is similar to something that is just blowing in the wind, meaning nothing of significance or of importance nothing concrete. it is purely an illusion or an imagination...hmn, i wonder (IF)...(^_~)... she could have answered this way...we are all humans, we make mistakes and to own them or to acknowledge them is a very good start. but for now my mistakes are just nil i would say and not worth mentioning them, like forgetting to admit that i made mistakes and apologize for them, laughs :) although it maybe different 10 or 20 years from now. by that time God willing i have traveled far and wide, i have experienced more pains and happiness and maybe by then i must have encountered and made some significant blunders in my life that i will deeply regret later. so to admit, to accept, to apologize and to make amends esp. to people that i've hurt if that will be the case, how's that :)
