to have a heart is to be human and to love humanity is you must have a heart...this goes back to Christ and God's ten commandments. one can't be able to follow it not unless one has a heart. does it mean a man or a woman who has two hearts sometimes more has really a heart, literally. meaning breaking one's BF or GF, husband or wife's heart by kissing, er having an affair with another while in a relationship. okay, last Wednesday i was really impressed with Elizabeth Edwards, the wife of the former vice presidential candidate who also aspired to be a U.S. president but lost. he is handsome, lawyer John Edwards, Elizabeth's husband who had an affair with a lady video-grapher named, Rielle Hunter. wow, she was really a hunter that's for sure and they even have an illegitimate child, a baby girl. i made sure to watch this riveting interview last Wednesday. and to compound the matter more Elizabeth Edwards has terminal cancer of the bones and she hopes to live for 8 more years. she was promoting her new book titled "resilience" at Larry King Live. they are now separated and in the process of getting a divorce. i think Elizabeth made the right decision to let go of her beloved infidel husband. give them freedom as I've said before and if they return to you they are yours, but what if there is another party involved and they are caught in the act of smooching, laughs, if not by you is by somebody else? well, i am harsh for i only give love one chance and that's it. if you do it now how will i know that you won't do it again esp. if you have the history of counting BFs or GFs? hmn, not unless you love your BF or GF to death which i don't judge anyone for it's their lives btw. just say good luck and be very aware that you might be cheated too or again as they did with their previous BF's or GF's before you, laughs. oh well! so guys and gals make sure that everything is clear before you jump into the water for it's easier to swim that way :) what a lady this mrs. edwards is...these lovers won't even have to wait until she dies to get together or marry and that folks is true resilience, her living up to her new book, congrats elizabeth and btw she is also a cancerian, laughs, so maybe that's why we think the same :) on another note, sad for larry king is leaving this coming fall. hope they get one replacement that is as good and as funny, yes, larry king is funny :) yes, guys and gals if you have a cheating GF or BF or lovey dovey, this is a test of your love for them. are you willing to forgive and pretend that nothing happened? let's wait and see if you and your beloved infidel will still get back together, laughs. oh well. it is as riveting as elizabeth's guest appearance at larry king live, we can tell that, laughs, and funny as well :) and talking of a riveting saga too, how about the love life of the sis of the new prez? we read from her hubby that no can't do, he wants them back together, again mrs. yap will give in probably and watch... they will have another episode like this in the future. and the reason for this recent split is about seeking a working U.S. visa for her nurse sister in law using connections. kris is right on this, the lady needs to do it on her own. just find an employer hospital here who are still seeking nurses abroad, but it is like seeking a needle in a hay stack for a lot of americans now are seeking job in the health care field as well, so it is kinda harder now, i think. the second cause of the break up was that her hubby would like to visit his relatives that did not vote for her brod, then why not let him go kris, i think it's the right thing to do for no matter what political affiliations, they are still his relatives, they are there even before you meet your hubby and came in the picture and lastly that mr. yap is not close to josh now? then kris is right on this one. if your hubby could not treat your special son like he did before you are still newly together then that is a big time cause for going your way out of the marriage if i were in her situation...your son now then you will be next that he won't have a care of, my take, sorry...but it is all in this lady's hands of course because she is the one who knows first hand what's going on in her own household and whatever it is, we should keep our minds off which i am guilty of here, laughs, sorry kris as if you're reading this. it must be hard to go through what this lady is going through now. like it was hard for her past life as well coz people judge and people talk and people are harsh...some, that is. i really do not judge people and this lady for we have all our own faults, it's just a matter of how big or how small...how deep or how shallow but still we are all sinners...that's why Jesus was sent on earth in the first place :) so are we ready to forgive and forget or are we ready to forgive and leave...it's all on us really if you think about it...
